The VBL Grid

Question:

How can I more fully understand and prepare for the situation I am about to enter, by using an integrated, comprehensive method.

The VBL Grid

2nd Person/ Empathy Future	1st Person/ Integrity Future	3rd Person/ Objectivity Future
2nd Person/ Empathy Present	1st Person/ Integrity Present	3rd Person/ Objectivity Present
2nd Person/ Empathy Past	1st Person/ Integrity Past	3rd Person/ Objectivity Past

The Method:

• Start in the middle at 1st Person / Integrity in the Present . . . that is your point of view, now.
• Be aware of your outcomes, values and deep self as well as the overall situation. There may be unhealed values violations
• Move your mind to each part of the grid, past, present and future, objectivity, empathy and integrity, as needed to expand your thinking.
• Make sure you heal your values violations, and deepen your understanding.
• Re-experience many events in the past. Visit your future. Step in the shoes of others. See through many lenses. View yourself as an observer.
• Continue until you are satisfied with your healing, peace of mind, and develop a set of wise solutions that will benefit you and others.

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